You have help so much I'm going through a divorce after 30 yrs and my husband lost his really job and then his dad a week later and he was there and seen him die. "Older adults today are much less likely to be willing to remain in what we call 'empty shell marriages,'" says Susan L. Brown, codirector of the National Center for Family and Marriage Research at Bowling Green State University in Ohio. An hour and a half after he walked through the door hi father was screaming he had to get into HR and reinstate on the job, My husband had been sleeping in a rented horizon that he drove 16 hours home after he was bumped of his return flight. Lastly, the financial side of so-called grey divorce is also particularly hard on older men, who will find their standard of living drop by 21% (compared to younger men whose incomes are only negligibly affected. Whereas at one time when you were in full-time employment, you may have spent limited time together, all of a sudden, retired couples are thrown together for a lot longer. It suggests that men are more likely to suffer if they feel they are underappreciated or disrespected by their wives or children. He is not thinking of you and I know how harsh that sounds. Find another that you love who loves you in return and move on. There was some bitterness in their somewhere to completely cut off someone who has spent most of their life with you. If your husband is serious about wanting to return, then making him wait will only increase that desire. That must feel devastating. You know, everyone here has a ligit reason to be depressed, sad, lost, etclosing a longtime spouse is a shock and there is much much confussion over the "Whys" of it all. If you think about it, at least the wives left behind, have always had the benefit of knowing what thier older years had in store for them. . The person who is leaving the relationship is almost certainly not the person to help you cope with the pain you feel. My Husband Left Me! Let Him Go or Fight for Our Marriage? Do anyone feel that I'm wrong for that? Pearl Nash WebMy husband left me a month ago after 35yrs of marriage. She moved on to another 20-something more suited for her. The Navy had already notified us that the last three years of isolated duty, along with being kept awake 106 hours on duty the last refit. He's just an old man trying to find his lost youth! There comes a tipping point, and if one spouse lets the other go over their tipping point, game over.". Sounds you got the support you need. We will have a loss in libido, drive, extra fat we cant seem to lose, and a realization that our married lives are no longer fresh, spontaneous and lacking in rommance. And some find that staying married for the long haul is even tougher. He has started a new life with someone else and doesn't want you anymore. Oh darling. had a sauce pan and frying pan for cooking and I did not see anything but raman noodles He just looked very tired and walked out of the hearing the rest of us went to get something to eat, his father was still talking about the respect he showed that morning and my mother said what did you expect, he got off his machines and came straight to the hearing.
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