female Painted_lady Furthermore, what adult man refuses to have a relationship wit a child he conceived. I noticed you dutifully avoided addressing that.. What sounded nice in theory is not sounding so great to Jimmy in reality. April 9, 2012, 10:29 am. Thats my advice. As a woman, you have control over that. If the woman wants to abort, then she can, but thats a decision she has to make because its happening inside her own body. And throwing money at her only covers one part of that. STORYTIME: my boyfriend cheated and got another girl pregnant That is called deception. Oops this was meant as a reply to Steve up there! We should use it more often. If you were instrumental in the making of the child congratulations it is yours. Increasingly, more and more, these letters just simply disgust me. Im not a woman hater happily married for 15 years, and I love my mother, my sister and even my mother-in-law. Oh, and im missing the misogyny in that child support comment. I dont think its necessarily fair. iseeshiny He has a responsibility to the baby, but thats as far as it goes. Oh I definitely agree, a laid back scenario is no more absurd, it really depends on how people take what he is saying. But then, I guess I like giving people the benefit of the doubt. But thats a crime? Men AND women both have decided, well after-the-fact, that no babies is better than having babies. He found her annoying but still slept with herI think this was pretty assholish behavior. And now onto you, ummmm you say he cant bare to be without you and never loved anyone as much as he loves you.well his actions sure say otherwise. caitie_didnt As a child who was raised by my mother and saw neither hair nor hide of my biological father, who diligently paid child support, Ive turned out for the better. April 9, 2012, 3:07 pm. "Cry, vent and . Choose. Because guess what? April 9, 2012, 4:44 pm. Its the second set of support owed to the child we are talking about. Plenty of fish in the sea, as they say. Now, the woman could want it and the dude not want it. That isnt misogyny. Its interesting how none of these comments address that he SPECIFICALLY said that he would have nothing to do with his own child. The carpenter asks his brother to impregnate his wife via IVF using the carpenters sperm. Of course we have a right to an opinion, even if our opinion is that dirty sluts shouldnt breed. Notwithstanding the fact that birth control sometimes fails, hes signing up for sex, not fatherhood. REALLY?! Im not saying he did. April 9, 2012, 3:42 pm. Please. At conception there is a zygote, then an embryo and then a fetus. But the issue is when he decided not to pull out but bust a load into a strangerhe took on that risk of possibily having the responsibility to pay for a kid for the next 18 years. Essence may receive compensation for some links to products and services on this website. I got the impression that he was furious that she opted to keep the baby and quite possibly that she misrepresented being on birth control, not that she had the audacity to become pregnant after sex. You know, I dont have much patience this morning,. Is it the fact that he wants something different from what she does that makes him scum? I dont think hed be right to be furious in many possible scenarios that would still fit what was said in this letter, but there are ones that would which I think would cause justifiable fury.
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